
Beyond the Facade explores authenticity, healing, and recovery from betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Host Luke Gordon, cofounder of Choose Recovery Services, and his guests share tools for addiction recovery, relationship repair, and emotional healing. Learn to rebuild trust, live with integrity, and create authentic connections as you heal from pain and go Beyond the Facade.
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 86 | Founded | 2 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

Stopping the behavior isn’t the same as healing.
This week Luke breaks down why addiction is not a willpower problem—but a self-perpetuating system. Drawing from Patrick Carnes’ addictive system framework, this episode explains why sincere motivatio... more
Why do we keep choosing relationships that feel familiar—even when they hurt?
This week, Luke and Alana dive into how attachment shapes relationships, addiction, and intimacy at the nervous system level. Attachment isn’t about willpower or insight—i... more
Sobriety doesn’t automatically create emotional safety—and partners know it.
This week Luke and Alana introduce parts work as a core Phase Two recovery framework. If you’ve ever felt emotionally hijacked, confused by your reactions, or ashamed that ... more
Many men believe that once the behavior stops, recovery should feel resolved. But what happens when sobriety doesn’t lead to closeness, safety, or repair?
In this episode Luke introduces Phase Two recovery and explains why emotional maturity isn’t a... more
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This podcast engages listeners in the complex journey of healing and recovery, focusing particularly on betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Hosted by a skilled professional in the field, it provides insights into emotional healing and the strategies necessary for rebuilding relationships. Each episode features discussions about the tools and approaches that aid individuals in their recovery journeys, targeting issues like trust, authenticity, and the understanding of one's emotions. Unique aspects include the emphasis on real-life experiences and actionable advice that resonate deeply with those facing similar struggles, fostering a sense of community and shared understanding.
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1. Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing
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4. From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer
5. Helping Couples Heal Podcast
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Recent guests on this podcast include:
1. Izzy Williams
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3. Stephen Thomas
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8. Kevin Meek
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