
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between.
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| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 24 | Founded | 5 months ago |
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On this episode, Hope's back with her flatmate Ash joining her to talk about their exploration in kink - we chat petplay, primal, and embracing the animal within, kink on a budget, switching, gender identity, and kink outside of a defined relationshi... more
In this episode W/we answer popular Tiktok search “is kirizal a boy or a girl”, S and kirizal compare gender “journeys”, and chat about how gender identity, roles, oppression, and expression influence kink. Plus - how inclusive is the kink community?... more
Through S’s repeated disclaimers that appearance control is NOT about making kirizal hotter, W/we talk about the undeniable glow up that happened in 2025. Why is appearance control so fun? Is being a bimbo really about being any less smart? And how d... more
kirizal’s ex, Hope (previously known as Alexea), joins U/us this episode to talk about navigating breakups in power exchange relationships. How do people disentangle their lives when they have created such an interdependent structure? How do submissi... more
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I absolutely love these podcasts. Am I into kink? No, but I am now thinking I want to try it. kirizal and S are so authentic, genuine and raw, it’s mind blowing. Highly highly highly recommend listening to this podcast. 💜
Really enjoying the podcast! I’m just listening for now and taking notes on how to get involved in a lifestyle like this. It’s fascinating, educational, and safety is obviously super important—can’t forget that! Loving all the tips and insights so far.
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Focused on the intricacies of kink and intimate relationships, the content frequently showcases candid conversations that address the complexities around sexual dynamics, communication, and emotional connections within BDSM contexts. The hosts share personal anecdotes while providing insights into the cultural perceptions of kink, alongside practical advice for navigating relationships marked by power exchange. Notably, the podcast balances education about safety and consent in kink practices with humorous, relatable commentary, making it both informative and accessible for those curious about the lifestyle or actively involved in kink communities. The hosts' authentic discussions foster a welcoming environment for listeners, breaking down ... more
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