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Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM
BDSM
Power Exchange
Kink
Relationships
Power Exchange Dynamics
Communication
D/s Relationships
Power Dynamics
Self-Care
BDSM Community
Mental Health
Polyamory
Submissive Power
Consent
Lingerie
Community Support
Sensory Experiences
Relationship Dynamics
Mutual Respect
Dominant Responsibilities

We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.

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They’re in a long distance relationship and each have their own partners and lives to balance. They want to know how to have a playful power exchange when they can’t be together. Here’s the...

The post Q&A: How Do We Maintain Playful D/s While LDR?... more

We made a goal to reconnect and become more intentional in our power exchange this year. Now that we’re near the end of the year, let’s talk about how it went! In this episode:...

The post Our D/s Life in 2025 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re answering a question I (Kayla) couldn’t stop thinking about. We’re not sure if they asked in good faith or not, but we’re taking the question seriously. Here’s the question: Does any...

The post Q&A: How is D/s Worth It if It’s So ... more

This week, we’re looking forward to 2026 to how to achieve some of the kink goals a lot of kinksters have (including us!). As always, you don’t have to wait for an arbitrary date...

The post How to Achieve Your Kink Goals for 2026 appeared first on... more

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Hosts

Kayla Lords
Host and co-host, actively engages in discussions surrounding BDSM topics and encourages open communication in relationships.
John Brownstone
Co-host focused on sharing insights into BDSM dynamics and supporting open dialogues about power exchange relationships.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 822 ratings
  • I love this podcast

    I love this podcast and how open and unapologetic it is. I’ve written some stories where the characters engage in BDSM. BDSM isn’t something to be afraid of but rather embrace with the person you love and trust.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cdd78
    Canada5 months ago
  • Very informative

    I am a new listener, and I’m almost two years into the kink community. I find this show very informative, especially since I consider myself somewhat new. I love the variety of personal stories they share, advice, and humor. I plan to keep listening as long as they keep running the show.

    I have only one ick about this show: the wet mouth from JD when he speaks. I love his personality, but I have to turn the volume almost all the way down when he speaks. I know I can’t be the only person hearing... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyLuck2626
    United States9 months ago
  • Is this really an 800-episode podcast? I just discovered it and went for the episode titled "Getting our D/s life back in 2025" and it was PAINFUL to suffer through the first 10+ minutes of nonsense before getting to the topic.

    I'm at the 20-minute mark as I write this and the whole thing feels sloppy, unstructured and, tbh, boring AF.

    I had great expectations. Maybe I'll give it a second try if I happen to see an attractive title in the future, but because of all these details (plus the anno... more

    Podchaser
    2
    johan.adrian1
    a year ago
  • Thank you

    This was my first lifestyle podcast that I found and fell in love with. I can personally relate to these two and love listening to their experience and advice. They have really built a solid community to pull from and grow with. Please never stop.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyBlooding
    United States2 years ago
  • Amazing knowledge

    My favourite podcast so far, informative, respectful and fun with social media interaction. Loving John and Kayla thank you for all your hard work ❤️❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Sebbybastian or lil windex
    Australia2 years ago

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There are mixed reviews regarding audio quality and speaking style, with some suggesting improvements for a better listening experience.
Overall, listeners value the encouragement of authenticity and the advocacy for healthy power dynamics in relationships.
The hosts effectively engage with the audience, creating a feeling of community and support within the kink lifestyle.
Listeners appreciate the openness and unapologetic nature of the content, finding it relatable and informative.

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Q&A: How is D/s Worth It if It’s So Difficult?
Q: Does any of this ever go right for anyone?
Kayla and John discuss that relationships require effort but can provide fulfillment and connection despite challenges.
Q&A: How Do We Find the Right Amount of Intimacy?
Q: How do we find a good middle ground for both of us?
You need to openly communicate with your partner about feelings and adjustments, ensure no pressure is felt regarding intimacy, and establish a new normal before adding back any kink or sexual activities.
Q&A: What Can I Wear Instead of My Collar?
Q: I'm a collared submissive to my daddy. I also work in medicine and cannot wear my collar at work. My daddy is very much okay with that. Any suggestions for a sort of comfort item for such high-stress situations?
Explore alternatives like day collars that aren't easily recognizable, or meaningful items like rings or bracelets that symbolize your relationship and provide comfort.
Q&A: Should I Change Our Dynamic Even Though I’m Happy With What We Have?
Q: What should I do if I'm considering changing the dynamic of my relationship?
Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and desires, as they may also have thoughts on exploring new dynamics.
It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!
Q: What apps or websites do you trust for meeting a kinky partner?
No singular trusted place exists; it's about finding places where kinky people gather, like FetLife.

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