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Mistakes Were Made

Sarah & Alex
Polyamory
Non-Monogamy
Relationships
Manners
Relationship Anarchy
Consent
Men's Issues
Performance Anxiety
Conflict Resolution
Communication
Non-Monogamous Relationships
Vulnerability
Parenting
Political Engagement
Social Responsibility
Boundary Setting
Communication Skills
Emotional Intelligence
Social Justice
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Non monogamy for imperfect people. Hosted by a queer therapist and her husband of 15 years. Sarah & Alex share their experiences opening their marriage, and interview guests about the struggles & rewards of doing relationships your own way. Mistakes Were Made is part advice, part confession, part culture critique. But it's all about learning from our missteps and stumbling toward liberation. Follo... more

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Evangelical-turned-athiest Tyson returns to the show, this time to help us unpack why so many people from religious backgrounds like his find their way to polyamory, and how religious trauma impacts our relationships.

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Sarah & Alex talk with Dr. Nicole, host of the Modern Anarchy podcast about jealousy, religious trauma and the first EVER study on relationship anarchy.

Oh, and the parallels between psychedelics and New Relationship Energy (NRE).

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It's an extra special live episode of Mistakes Were Made! Sarah and Alex are joined by Jessa Davis, Elizabeth Cunningham, and return guest Ramsey for a conversation all about relationship equality, representation, and how to talk to your family about... more

Has a relationship ever made you feel like a scared little kid? You might be resurfacing trauma from an earlier life stage. In the Season 5 premiere Sarah and Alex welcome spooky season with a deep dive into the many ways unexplored trauma could be w... more

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Recent Guests

Dr. Nicole Thompson
Queer sex and relationship psychotherapist, founder of The Pleasure Practice
The Pleasure Practice
Episode: Ep 63: Jealousy, Anarchy and Psychedelics with Dr Nicole Thompson
Elizabeth Cunningham
Panelist with a background in gender, sexuality, and politics.
Episode: Ep 62: MWM Live at Liberating Love Festival
Calvin Burnap
Licensed therapist, relationship coach, and meditation teacher
CalvinBurnap.com and TheCrushCoach.com
Episode: Ep 57: How to Fail at Sex with Calvin Burnap
Dean Spade
Writer, activist and advocate for queer and trans liberation based in racial and economic justice
Seattle University School of Law
Episode: Ep 51: Love in a F*cked Up World with Dean Spade
Reagan Jackson
Activist, author, artist, and karaoke singer.
Episode: Ep 47: The Monogamous Skeptic Returns! Special Guest Reagan Jackson
Mattise Wood
Queer poly flexible barista in school to be a drama therapist and currently on a softball team.
Episode: Ep 40: Gen Poly with Mattise Wood
Maxx Hill
Teacher, graphic designer, and caretaker of the Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord
Episode: Ep 38: Relationship Anarchy with Maxx Hill
Dr. Eric FitzMedrud
Silicon Valley based psychotherapist focusing on men's issues
Private Practice
Episode: Ep 32: How Men Can Date Better with Dr. Eric FitzMedrud
Riki Thompson
Researcher, educator, consultant, and public speaker specializing in digital communication, online dating, and polyamory.
University of Washington Tacoma
Episode: Ep 30: Perfecting Your Dating App Profile with Riki Thompson

Hosts

Sarah
Co-host and queer non-monogamous therapist, reflecting on personal experiences in relationships and the complexities of navigating non-traditional dynamics.
Alex
Co-host and partner of Sarah, sharing insights and experiences related to non-monogamy and personal growth within their marriage.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 60 ratings
  • Raw dog

    Can’t wait for the episode where they discuss how Alex lies about condom use and then exposes all his partners to an STD! Mistakes were made! Lololololol

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    SexualHorrorFilm
    United States10 months ago
  • Poignant and vulnerable

    I’ll often think about episodes for days after I’ve listened to them. Being willing to learn from mistakes is easier said than done, nevermind air them for others to learn from. The humility and generosity of this goes noticed and appreciated. Thank you!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    awe_seeka
    United States2 years ago
  • My new favorite mistake

    Authentic. Vulnerable. Nuanced. Thank you for sharing your mistakes and what you learned from them and in turn helping us all to learn.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mistake Fangrrl
    United States4 years ago

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Many find the balance between humor and seriousness in topics related to love and trauma refreshing and thought-provoking.
Audiences commend the hosts for their vulnerability and openness, creating a safe space for discussing difficult subjects.
Listeners appreciate the podcast's raw honesty and transparency about the hosts' experiences with mistakes and growth.
The candid discussions about non-monogamy resonate deeply, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own relationship dynamics.

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Ep 53: Good Grief with Queer Chaplain Kam
Q: How do you work with people when they come to you with loss?
Kam describes building a safe container for discussing taboo topics while recognizing the natural relationship to change.
Ep 53: Good Grief with Queer Chaplain Kam
Q: How did you get into this type of work?
Kam shares their mixed faith background and experiences that led them to spirituality and chaplaincy.
Ep 46: Swinging and Sex Parties
Q: Can you just do some defining of terms for us?
Swinger evokes an older term, while lifestyle includes more requests for consent and can encompass both swinging couples and poly couples.
Ep 46: Swinging and Sex Parties
Q: What inspired you to start that?
I wanted to create an accepting environment for women and others to feel comfortable and meet like-minded individuals.
Ep 38: Relationship Anarchy with Maxx Hill
Q: What is relationship anarchy?
Relationship anarchy is about applying principles of self-organization and autonomy to all kinds of relationships, focusing on customization rather than adhering to traditional norms.

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This podcast focuses on the intricacies of non-monogamous relationships as shared by hosts who bring their personal experiences and insights. The conversations often navigate the complexities of love, trauma, and societal norms surrounding relationships, aiming to offer both humor and guidance to listeners. Themes of emotional vulnerability, communication, and the importance of community support are recurrent throughout the episodes. With a blend of personal recounts and discussions featuring diverse guests, the hosts aim to destigmatize misunderstandings about non-monogamy while providing practical advice and introspection on their evolving relationship dynamics.

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2. Elizabeth Cunningham
3. Calvin Burnap
4. Dean Spade
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