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Note to Self

Dear Media
Relationships
Mental Health
Dating
Home Decor
Bad Dates
Personal Growth
Self-Love
Life Lessons
75 Soft
Dating Stories
Single Motherhood
Hyper Independence
Judgmental Friends
PCOS
Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Emotional Reliance
Self-Care
Joe Sartain
Vision Board
Career Development

From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab so... more

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#231. This episode is a candid life update and a values-driven conversation about navigating the current U.S. political climate as a woman who cares deeply but needs to take small moments for herself. We talk about boundaries, nervous system care, an... more

#230. In this Ask P episode of Note to Self, Payton answers listener questions about navigating life’s in-between seasons — from fresh breakups and New Year resets to long-term relationship “ebbs,” family dynamics, friendship loss, and early dating r... more

#229. If you’ve done the work but still don’t feel fully present, this episode is for you. We break down why getting out of your head isn’t a mindset shift but a nervous system one, and how embodiment creates calm, confidence, and connection. Think o... more

#228. Welcome to the 2026 toolkit—a curated collection of what's working, what's worth it, and what creates the infrastructure for an intentional life. This isn't about perfection or having it all figured out; it's about the specific tools, rituals, ... more

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Recent Guests

Les Alfred
Host of the She's So Lucky podcast
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Episode: How to be the Luckiest Woman You Know, with Les Alfred
Eli Rallo
Bestselling author and creator, known for her cultural commentary
Episode: Building Community, Navigating New Eras, & General Girl Talk with Eli Rallo
Dr. Tara
Tenured professor and sex educator
Episode: The Sex Talk You Never Got: Working Through Shame, Sex in Long-Term Relationships, Orgasms, & more with Dr. Tara
Jaleigh Friend
Founder of The Friend Club
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Episode: Wedding “Rules” Are Dead, with Jaleigh Friend of The Friend Club
Ariel LaFond
Fractional CFO, qualified CPA, and tax specialist
Episode: Rich Girl Rituals: Money as Self-Care, with Ariel LaFond
Nuria Madrenas
Founder of Tacit
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Episode: A Beginner’s Guide to Building an Art Collection (realistically), with Nuria Madrenas, Founder of Tacit
Violet Witchel
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Episode: You’re Allowed to Reinvent Yourself, with Violet Witchel
Laura Caruso
Relationship therapist and host of Safe Space with Laura Caruso
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Episode: How to Tell if It's a Rough Patch or the Wrong Person, with Relationship Therapist Laura Caruso
Jade Beguelin
Co-founder of 4AM Skincare
4AM Skincare
Episode: For the Girls Who Thrive in the Office *AND* at the Afterparty, with Jade Beguelin, Co-founder of 4AM Skin

Host

Payton Sartain
Host of Note to Self, focusing on personal growth, relationships, and life advice with relatable storytelling and insights.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 5.6k ratings
  • Love P

    I love NTS! I’ve been listening for almost 3 years. I have some many similarities to P with how we grew up to college experience. As an oldest of 3, I’ve truly learned so much and she’s helped me through so many things. NEVER LEAVE US P!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Chickenfingyfriday
    United Statesa month ago
  • Fav Pod!

    Been listening to yearsss! P is like the big sis I never had. Her advice segments are my fav!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    han.edwards7
    United States2 months ago
  • The Year that Unmade Me

    I loved this episode and Payton’s candidness about her year. It was really refreshing to hear someone talk about the realities behind weddings, relationships, influencer careers, etc. all things which tend to live on individuals highlight reels with rare, if any, glimpses into the downsides or stressors that can come from them. I can relate to feeling the need to look at myself in the mirror after a year of overwhelm, despite immense privilege, and it was comforting to hear this reflected in som... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MariaRicci28
    United Kingdom2 months ago
  • Interview skills

    I love the solo eps sm but the interviews always become useless. Payton will ask 2-3 questions in the beginning then the whole ep turns into the “me and Joe” show and she talks about herself and fiancé the whole time without letting the guest speak. I was so excited for the episode with Les but per usual the convo fell off a cliff after the first 15 min or so and Payton never let her speak after that.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    LA01222
    United States3 months ago
  • Love

    Love the solo episodes so much! Feel like they’re very relatable!! I like the interview episodes too, but I feel like there isn’t enough time given to the interviewer to talk. It’s more her talking, answering her own question and then rounding about to a different question at the end.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Sondy123
    United States3 months ago

Listeners Say

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Listeners appreciate the relatable and honest conversations, often feeling uplifted and inspired by the advice shared.
There are occasional critiques about the host's tendency to dominate conversations during interviews rather than allowing guests ample speaking time.
Overall, the content resonates strongly with those in their 20s and 30s, reflecting their experiences and challenges in relationships and personal growth.
Many reviews mention the comforting tone of the episodes, comparing them to a chat with a close friend or sister.

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ASK P: Life Audit Framework, Advice to my 21-Year-Old Self, Staying Grounded & a New Year Check-In with your Partner
Q: Do you make goals and resolutions with Joe?
We plan our goals by focusing on what we want our life to feel like, our non-negotiables, and what needs to shift from last year.
ASK P: Life Audit Framework, Advice to my 21-Year-Old Self, Staying Grounded & a New Year Check-In with your Partner
Q: What advice would you give your 21-year-old self in general and also in regards to dating?
I would say create a foundation for a future relationship by prioritizing experiences over forced dating and focus on understanding yourself better.
Leaving a Good Relationship for the Right Reasons (a Lesson in Choosing Yourself), with Margot Lee
Q: What are you doing nowadays to help with a breakup?
During the breakup, journaling was very important to me; it helped to write about my feelings and thoughts. I also relied heavily on my friends for support and encouragement.
The Sex Talk You Never Got: Working Through Shame, Sex in Long-Term Relationships, Orgasms, & more with Dr. Tara
Q: What can couples do when they aren't having enough sex in a long-term relationship?
It's extremely common, and sexual connection is important. Quality over quantity is key, and couples should explore intimacy in different ways.
The Sex Talk You Never Got: Working Through Shame, Sex in Long-Term Relationships, Orgasms, & more with Dr. Tara
Q: What do you think about shame around sexuality?
It is completely normal, whatever you're feeling, and very common. Shame is in the shadow, often lurking in situations that matter.

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Focused on self-improvement and personal growth, this podcast offers listeners a blend of relatable stories and advice aimed at navigating life's complexities. The host engages in heartfelt reflections on topics such as relationships, mental health, and community building, often intertwining her personal experiences with broader life lessons. Unique in its conversational tone, episodes range from light-hearted discussions to deeper explorations of societal expectations and emotional well-being, making it a comforting companion for anyone seeking guidance and connection in their life's journey. Inviting various guests, the discussions are as varied as they are insightful, ensuring there is something for everyone.

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2. Eli Rallo
3. Dr. Tara
4. Jaleigh Friend
5. Ariel LaFond
6. Nuria Madrenas
7. Violet Witchel
8. Laura Caruso

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