
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 245 | Founded | 5 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | SexualityHealth & Fitness | |||

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I love the topics in this podcast and I love the fact that she is an actual sex therapist. I want to hear so much more from her, but he talks so much and most of what he says I feel is just opinions and I am not here for his casual opinions. I want her educated insight. I don’t understand why he overtakes so often and so much. I can’t even listen anymore because he just interjects constantly as if he knows as much as she does.
Thank you for doing all that you do! …love the podcast, your IG posts, courses, book, etc…so much helpful advice! I’ve learned so much.
Listening to Xander makes me want to find a broken stick and scratch out my eardrums. I’m longing for the day where AI can scrub a podcast of a particular voice and play something more palatable like fingernails on a chalkboard, or an out of tune violin.
I do like the podcast, but it’s always a delicate balance of getting benefit from the topic and ignoring Xander’s inane addictions to the show. Love Vanessa. PLEASE less Xander.
I’m a penis owner listener and love this show so much! I’m listening from 1- today and have since the SRS interview gotten a lot of helpful information. I have a little over 100 episodes left and dunno what I’m gonna listen to waiting like everyone else once I catch up. The show has helped me so much through a terrible divorce and I believe it’ll give me a lot of help avoiding as many of the issues I didn’t know I was doing wrong and didn’t know how to articulate my own boundaries. Vanessa you’r... more
I really enjoy listening to this couple’s banter! They’re so much fun and cover so many great topics to help improve relationships. Highly recommend!
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Engaging and light-hearted, this audio experience offers insightful discussions on sexuality and relationships through the engaging dynamic of two hosts: a knowledgeable sex therapist and her relatable partner. Each episode tackles a variety of topics ranging from intimacy and communication to the nuances of sexual experiences, while aiming to dispel myths and promote open discussions about sex. Listeners can expect practical tips and relatable anecdotes that de-stigmatize common sexual concerns, making complex subjects accessible and engaging. The use of humor and personal narratives is a defining feature, aiming to create a comfortable space for listeners to reflect on their own lives and relationships around intimacy.
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