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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full... more

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Testosterone is one of those topics that feels loaded.

It’s tangled up in masculinity, aging, sex drive, energy, mood… and a whole lot of misinformation. Because of that, many men quietly wonder if something is off — but feel embarrassed, unsure, or... more

If the thought of scheduling sex makes you cringe a little… we get that a lot.

You might be thinking..

“Ugh. That’s so unromantic.” or… “NOT hot.” or… “If we have to schedule it, something must be wrong with our relationship.”

We’re here to today ... more

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Most marriage regrets don’t show up as explosive fights. They show up quietly.

Feeling more like roommates than partners.

Wondering when sex started feeling complicated… or nonexistent.

Noticing resentment creeping in and asking yourself… “Is this... more

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Penis performance issues are way more common than most people realize… and way more misunderstood than they need to be.

Today’s episode came straight from your questions — from trouble getting or keeping an erection, to finishing too quickly (or not... more

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Recent Guests

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Host of the Liz Moody podcast, a longtime journalist sharing science and realistic tools.
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Hosts

Vanessa Marin
Host of Pillow Talks and a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience, Vanessa brings professional expertise and relatable anecdotes to discussions on intimacy and relationships.
Xander Marin
Co-host of Pillow Talks, Xander provides the regular dude's perspective, balancing humor with heartfelt insights into relationships and intimacy.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 5.2k ratings
  • He talks way way way too often

    I love the topics in this podcast and I love the fact that she is an actual sex therapist. I want to hear so much more from her, but he talks so much and most of what he says I feel is just opinions and I am not here for his casual opinions. I want her educated insight. I don’t understand why he overtakes so often and so much. I can’t even listen anymore because he just interjects constantly as if he knows as much as she does.

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Tierra99
    United States11 days ago
  • So thankful for you two

    Thank you for doing all that you do! …love the podcast, your IG posts, courses, book, etc…so much helpful advice! I’ve learned so much.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ARHJAW
    United States23 days ago
  • PLEASE, less Xander, more Vanessa.

    Listening to Xander makes me want to find a broken stick and scratch out my eardrums. I’m longing for the day where AI can scrub a podcast of a particular voice and play something more palatable like fingernails on a chalkboard, or an out of tune violin.

    I do like the podcast, but it’s always a delicate balance of getting benefit from the topic and ignoring Xander’s inane addictions to the show. Love Vanessa. PLEASE less Xander.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    DaRQue02
    United Statesa month ago
  • Wonderful resource of information 🩲🦑☔️

    I’m a penis owner listener and love this show so much! I’m listening from 1- today and have since the SRS interview gotten a lot of helpful information. I have a little over 100 episodes left and dunno what I’m gonna listen to waiting like everyone else once I catch up. The show has helped me so much through a terrible divorce and I believe it’ll give me a lot of help avoiding as many of the issues I didn’t know I was doing wrong and didn’t know how to articulate my own boundaries. Vanessa you’r... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    FurryFootFetisher907
    United Statesa month ago
  • Worth your time

    I really enjoy listening to this couple’s banter! They’re so much fun and cover so many great topics to help improve relationships. Highly recommend!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    ShesAChemist
    United States2 months ago

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Listeners appreciate the humor and candid discussions about sex and relationships, often citing the helpfulness of the practical advice.
Many find the chemistry between the hosts refreshing, creating a relatable atmosphere that enhances the listening experience.
Some criticism emerges regarding conversational dynamics, particularly the balance between the hosts, suggesting more emphasis on the expert's voice would enhance content depth.

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E242: Penis Performance Problems: What’s Really Going On (And What To Do About It)
Q: Can ED be stress related or just a getting older thing?
ED absolutely is stress related.
E242: Penis Performance Problems: What’s Really Going On (And What To Do About It)
Q: Can long-term porn use affect or cause penis issues?
Absolutely, yes.
E238: Ask a Sex Therapist: Cycle Libido, Rough Sex & How to Sync Up Your O’s
Q: Is it normal to feel slightly uninterested after having an orgasm from a vagina owner?
Yes, it is normal due to hormonal changes after orgasm that include a dip in sexual desire.
E238: Ask a Sex Therapist: Cycle Libido, Rough Sex & How to Sync Up Your O’s
Q: How can me and my partner finish at the same time?
It requires a lot of practice, and commitment to understanding the timing of both partners, especially allowing one person to reach orgasm first.
E230 How to Actually Enjoy Oral Sex (Without Overthinking It)
Q: I don't know how to tell my partner to adjust how he's doing it. Any tips?
Think about the pressure, speed, and technique when giving feedback. Use the Ultimate Foreplay Guides as a resource.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Pillow Talks

What is Pillow Talks about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Engaging and light-hearted, this audio experience offers insightful discussions on sexuality and relationships through the engaging dynamic of two hosts: a knowledgeable sex therapist and her relatable partner. Each episode tackles a variety of topics ranging from intimacy and communication to the nuances of sexual experiences, while aiming to dispel myths and promote open discussions about sex. Listeners can expect practical tips and relatable anecdotes that de-stigmatize common sexual concerns, making complex subjects accessible and engaging. The use of humor and personal narratives is a defining feature, aiming to create a comfortable space for listeners to reflect on their own lives and relationships around intimacy.

The podcast is esp... more

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