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To Be A Boy

To Be A Boy
Mental Health
Masculinity
Parenting
Friendship
Loneliness
Andrew Tate
Misogyny
Male Identity
Male Privilege
Manosphere
Adolescence
Pornography
Toxic Masculinity
Gender Roles
Feminism
Men's Mental Health
Boys
Fatherhood
2024
Child Development

Ever wondered how to navigate raising boys in this bonkers world? Enter To Be A Boy', where hosts Joeli Brearley and Elliott Rae tackle the murky waters of masculinity and boyhood. From societal stereotypes to the influence of porn, they provide a candid take on raising well-rounded boys. Expect personal anecdotes, belly laughs, and deep dives as they dismantle harmful clichés and champion honest ... more

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What does it mean to grow up as a boy today? Spoiler: It’s not all football and moonwalks anymore.

In this episode of To Be A Boy, Joeli and Elliott sit down with Lee Chambers, psychologist, and founder of Male Allies UK, and all-around champion fo... more

In this episode of To Be a Boy, our Elliott and Joeli are getting stuck into the fascinating (and occasionally sobering) world of modern masculinity. Joined by Joe Hall from Channel 4 and Fergus Navaratnam-Blair from the National Research Group, we’r... more

Joeli and Elliott are joined by the inimitable Cindy Gallop to discuss her ground breaking work with Make Love Not Porn, addressing the impact of pornography on societal expectations and relationships. She describes the importance of open conversatio... more

Joeli and Elliott are taking us through THAT Chanté Joseph Vogue article and asking if and why it’s uncool to have a boyfriend…

This episode explores the complexities of modern relationships, the impact of social media, and the evolving roles of me... more

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Recent Guests

Joe Hall
Media professional from Channel 4
Channel 4
Episode: Mirror, Mirror on Masculinity: Are We Getting It Right?
Fergus Navaratnam-Blair
Representative from the National Research Group
National Research Group
Episode: Mirror, Mirror on Masculinity: Are We Getting It Right?
Cindy Gallop
Entrepreneur, speaker, and cultural firestarter known for her initiative Make Love Not Porn.
Make Love Not Porn
Episode: Make Love Not Porn: a guide for men, boys and the real world with Cindy Gallop
John Amaechi
Organizational psychologist, New York Times bestselling author and former NBA player
Episode: THE John Amaechi on men, masculinity and monsters.
Richard Reeves
Writer, scholar, and former policy advisor
American Institute for Boys and Men
Episode: The Don of Boys and Men: Richard Reeves
Sarah Ockwell-Smith
A mother of four and a bestselling author specializing in gentle parenting methods.
Author
Episode: (Gentle) Parenting with Sarah Ockwell-Smith
Dr. Alex Blower
Author of Lost Boys and founder of Boys Impact
Episode: Class, Culture, and the Classroom: A New Vision for Boys’ Education
Tosha Schore
Founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, advocate for raising emotionally intelligent boys
Parenting Boys Peacefully
Episode: Out with Aggression: Raising Sweet Boys with Tosha Schore
Christopher Pepper
Best-selling author and health educator in San Francisco schools
San Francisco Unified School District
Episode: From Grunts to Growth: Talking Boys with Christopher Pepper

Hosts

Joeli Brearley
Joeli Brearley is a co-host known for her expertise in parenting and her focus on the positive development of boys. She brings personal anecdotes and insights, shaping discussions around masculinity and healthy emotional expression.
Elliott Rae
Elliott Rae is a co-host with a background in education and child development, contributing to a compassionate perspective on raising boys. He emphasizes emotional intelligence and the importance of challenging traditional stereotypes around masculinity.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 154 ratings
  • Finding their voice

    I think they are finding their voice as a new podcast, and have found episodes to improve over time. Format struggles a bit, and doesn’t always flow smoothly. Overall a worthy listen as a new mother to a boy and feel like this content is much needed. I look forward to seeing how they evolve and grow over time!

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    ewalk7198
    United States9 months ago
  • Great guests, discussing important issues

    Elliott and Joeli are a great combination, I like the banter between them. But it’s the guests so far that have made this a great listen. The four-parter on Adolescence in particular is really good. Looking forward to more!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tallcmp172
    United Kingdom9 months ago
  • Thank you

    Thank you so much for creating this podcast!! I am a mum of 3 boys and I am determined to raise the next generation of happy, grounded, kind and connected boys. For the world to be a better place for all boys and girls and future adults! We need this so much! So very excited to follow this! 🔥🙏🙏🙏

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Popcast_for_kids
    United Kingdom9 months ago
  • Hoping you go deeper

    I’m 1.5 episodes in and it all feels a bit Blue Peter so far. Planning to persevere because the topic is so important to me but really hoping you both go on a steep learning curve as the series progresses. Ep 1 you say the idea partly came from MeToo and basically wanting to avoid bringing up a predator. Hmmm. Ep2 you show dismay at the global DEI climbdown - policies which are literally about assuming males have ‘privilege’ and must be deprioritised. As things stand I am not convinced you’re th... more

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    Bonbonbons585
    United Kingdom9 months ago
  • Love most of the content, frustratingly heteronormative

    I love the premise of this podcast and thoroughly enjoyed the first episode.

    The second I struggled to engage with.

    The descriptions of relationship dynamics particularly in the intro were exclusively about hetro cis couples. It felt exclusive and not really good enough for 2025

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    LouLaabelle
    United Kingdom9 months ago

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Listeners appreciate the engaging and thought-provoking conversations about parenting boys in a modern context.
The hosts are praised for their balance of humor and seriousness while tackling sensitive topics like masculinity and emotional wellbeing.
Some feedback indicates a desire for deeper exploration of certain subjects, particularly those related to gender dynamics and inclusivity.
Overall, there is enthusiasm for the informative nature of the discussions and the supportive community fostered among listeners.

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Algorithms, Allyship & AI Girlfriends: Growing Up Boy in 2025 with Lee Chambers
Q: How can the education system help boys navigate these topics?
It can provide skills relevant to modern challenges and promote open discussions about digital interactions.
Algorithms, Allyship & AI Girlfriends: Growing Up Boy in 2025 with Lee Chambers
Q: What worries you the most about boys' mental health and identity?
The amount of polarity and difference across boys and their feelings of being unheard by adults.
Make Love Not Porn: a guide for men, boys and the real world with Cindy Gallop
Q: What is the impact of porn on men's expectations and anxieties?
Cindy explains how porn creates unrealistic expectations and performances that affect real-life intimacy and relationships.
Make Love Not Porn: a guide for men, boys and the real world with Cindy Gallop
Q: What conversations would you be having with your son who is at primary school age about porn?
Cindy suggests discussing early about both sex and porn, framing it in a way that emphasizes that porn is not real and that talking about it is important.
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Q: How can we encourage dads to parent out loud without reinforcing the idea that they need to be praised for it?
Dads often face suspicion when asking for flexible working, but using their leave doesn't make them less competent; they should feel encouraged without needing extra praise.

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Centered on the intricacies of parenting boys, this show discusses the evolving perceptions of masculinity and the challenges faced by boys in contemporary society. Hosts provide a candid platform for exploring various themes, including societal stereotypes, the influence of pornography, emotional intelligence, and the educational gaps affecting boys. Personal anecdotes and engaging dialogues highlight the importance of nurturing well-rounded boys who can navigate their identities in a complex world. The approach combines humor with serious discussions, making it appealing for parents seeking insights and support in raising boys.

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1. Joe Hall
2. Fergus Navaratnam-Blair
3. Cindy Gallop
4. John Amaechi
5. Richard Reeves
6. Sarah Ockwell-Smith
7. Dr. Alex Blower
8. Tosha Schore

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