
You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all things dating, healing anxious, avoidant, & disorganized attachment styles, and healthy relationships - so you can feel as amazing in relationships as you do in every other area of your life 💕
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 36 | Founded | a year ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Self-ImprovementMental HealthHealth & FitnessEducation | |||

On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment!
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Common things women say when they're trying to justify red flags! Do you ever find yourself doing or saying these things? If you do, don't worry - Emily has been there, too! But it's time to make the decision to walk away and stop settling for red fl... more
If you're frustrated that a guy led you on and wasted your time, this episode is for you! Emily provides a helpful reframe on how to view situations like this with more peace and less frustration!
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Emily breaks down 9 subtle ways you might be self abandoning in dating in this episode!Â
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I’ve been following Emily for a while and It’s amazing how much growth I’ve experienced by listening to her guidance and applying it to my life in the practical ways she suggests. I think my favorite thing is that I’ve come to know, love, and respect myself more than I ever knew was possible. This podcast is a HUGE gift to all who take the time to listen.
I love listening to Emily’s insights. I have actually done one on one work with Emily and she changed my life, this is not hyperbole. Listening to this podcast reinforces all that I have learned. There’s always opportunity to understand better, grow more, see things more clearly. If you’ve been on the journey it’s great to reinforce, if you’re just starting it’s a great introduction.
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Focusing on the intricate dynamics of dating and relationships, this podcast addresses the complexities that successful women often face in their romantic lives. Topics frequently explored include attachment styles—such as anxious, avoidant, and disorganized patterns—and how these influence interactions, choices, and emotional responses within relationships. Through personal anecdotes, expert insights, and practical advice, the host aims to empower listeners to cultivate healthier connections, improve self-awareness, and ultimately enhance their relationships just as they do in their professional and personal lives.
Uniquely, the content is infused with a mix of personal growth strategies, therapeutic insights, and discussions around emoti... more
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