
Psychotherapist and Coach, Torie Wiksell, is no stranger to talking about challenging and dysfunctional family dynamics. In addition to specializing in working with the adult children of parents with borderline and narcissistic personality disorders as both a therapist and coach, Torie grew up with a mother who had an unmanaged personality disorder.Torie has spent a significant portion of her 12 y... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 95 | Founded | a year ago |
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In this short, grounding episode of the You’re Not Crazy Podcast, we’re talking about how cycle breakers can take care of themselves during the holidays when family dynamics are toxic, overwhelming, or emotionally unsafe.
This is not about pushing t... more
In today’s episode, Torie breaks down why cycle breakers panic-agree to things they don’t want to do, why your body goes into survival mode when you try to set limits, and why allowing yourself to change your mind is a crucial part of healing.
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In this episode, we talk openly about cycle breaker shame, why it hits so hard after the holidays, and why these moments don’t define your growth. Listen to learn how to reconnect with the emotionally mature adult you’re working so hard to become.
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This week’s episode breaks down why the holidays bring up so much dread, why perfectionism shows up so strongly for cycle breakers, and how to stay grounded when your family triggers you.
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Therapy is supposed to help clients explore their experiences safely--not push a narrative that always casts one side as the villain.
Adult children sometimes have addictions, etc. Parents don’t have to and shouldn’t have to put up with adult children’s toxic behavior. ITS NOT ALWAYS PARENTS… just because she has unresolved parent issues doesn’t mean all adult children who go no contact is because of the parent!!
This podcast has been very clarifying for me and my family’s dynamics. I didn’t realize until this past year how much tolerance I had developed for such toxic behaviors by others. This has also been very validating bc my sister and I have convos about trying to figure out what’s going on in our family and this podcast has brought up a lot of things we brought up with each other organically. It’s hard to understand if you don’t grow up with this kind of family bc on the outside they appear as sai... more
First off, this is an amazing podcast if you’re an adult with a borderline mother and an enabling father (or another combo). I feel seen, validated, nodding along to most of it, triggered (in a good way), and taken a lot of Tori’s advice to use in my relationship with my borderline mom and enabler dad. It’s helper to clarify why I’m feeling what I’m feeling. I am empowered. So, thank you. You’re talking about issues that I have never heard another podcaster talk about. That being said, I agree w... more
I am on a healing journey, trying to recuperate from my toxic and dysfunctional family. In a very low moment recently, I searched for self-help podcasts and found Torie’s, and though I’m only a few episodes in, I feel better already. Listening to her is so soothing and validating, and I am excited to continue this journey!
This podcast has helped me more than any other resources I’ve found. So thankful!
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The content focuses on navigating the complexities of relationships with toxic parents, particularly those exhibiting borderline and narcissistic tendencies. The host provides practical advice, emotional support, and insights from her experiences as both a therapist and a cycle breaker. Episodes cover a range of topics including setting boundaries, dealing with self-gaslighting, and understanding familial dynamics, aiming to empower adult children seeking healing from their challenging upbringing. Unique to this podcast is a strong emphasis on community, offering resources like workshops and coaching to aid listeners in their personal growth and recovery journeys through supportive discussion and relatable storytelling.
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