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You Are Not Crazy

Jessica Knight
Narcissistic Abuse
Emotional Abuse
Boundaries
Gaslighting
Borderline Personality Disorder
Relationships
Therapy
Relationship Recovery
Trauma Bonds
Emotional Coercion
Five Love Languages
Manipulative Behavior
Cognitive Dissonance
Healing
Emotional Immaturity
Narcissism
Mental Health
Cycle Of Abuse
Psychological Manipulation
Co-Parenting

You’re exhausted from over-functioning, always managing the chaos just to make it seem okay. You feel alone. Misunderstood. Like no one sees the full story—except you.

Your friends don’t get it. You question yourself constantly. You wonder if you're the problem. You're not.

I understand—because I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to be stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship, gaslit into s... more

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If you’ve ever been told you “can’t communicate” — especially by someone who constantly twists your words or refuses to take accountability — this episode will help you see what’s really happening. I break breaks down how abusers weaponize communicat... more

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When you’ve been in an emotionally abusive relationship, the need for clarity can feel all-consuming. You want to know why they did what they did — why they lied, withdrew, or turned cold. You believe that if you can just understand their behavior, y... more

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This episode unpacks what happens when speaking your truth gets twisted into a blame game. You finally name the pattern—gaslighting, neglect, constant eggshells—only to have the conversation hijacked. Suddenly you’re defending a mistake from years ag... more

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In this episode, I talk about a communication pattern that so many people experience in emotionally abusive and high-conflict relationships—but rarely have language for.

It’s the moment when a message sounds reasonable on paper, calm in tone, even “... more

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Jessica Knight
Host and certified life coach, focusing on emotional abuse recovery and validation of personal experiences related to narcissistic and emotional abuse.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 251 ratings
  • Love the podcast

    I found this podcast and it saved me. Thank you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Yas21212
    United Kingdom3 months ago
  • Great insight

    Jessica really gets it- thanks so much for sharing the help. It feels so encouraging that I’m not imagining things. Thank you! God Bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Pilotswife94
    United States3 months ago
  • Too much pushing self promotion

    It would be much better if you open the show with a note that listen to the end and find out more about how you can work with me and put all of your self promotion at the end. I’m literally skipping through 6 to 8 minutes of promotion to get to the actual podcast that I want to listen to. Just some food for thought.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Bossomeman
    United States5 months ago
  • NerdRope

    Your insights, advice and encouragement have pulled me through my break up from someone I do love, but who was emotionally abusive. I find myself enthusiastically, talking out loud along with your podcast, saying, Yes! Exactly! I needed this, and what you’re doing is going to help a lot of people. Thank you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Nerd Rope
    United States6 months ago
  • Amazing

    Hello, I am a 9 year narc survivor 6 months out. Still healing and dealing with trying to co-parent now. Your podcast I stumbled upon wow, pretty sure we were with the same man. Your stories on how your abuser treated you especially in the episode “cycle of abuse” this has and was my life. It’s been amazing hearing I’m not alone. Thank you

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    5
    Whitley Martelle
    United States6 months ago

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Some reviews highlight the quality of the content and affirm the host's ability to articulate complex emotional experiences.
The podcast is praised for its therapeutic approach, helping individuals navigate their healing journeys and recognize their worth.
Listeners find the insights validating, as many appreciate the sense of community and recognition of their struggles.
Criticism exists about excessive self-promotion within episodes, suggesting some listeners prefer a focus on content over promotional materials.

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How Do I Stop Second Guessing Myself After Leaving an Abusive Relationship?
Q: What do I do when I feel guilty for setting boundaries?
Understand that the guilt is a learned alarm, and practice holding your boundaries regardless of the guilt that arises.
How Do I Stop Second Guessing Myself After Leaving an Abusive Relationship?
Q: What are some ways to regulate my nervous system when I'm triggered?
Engaging in grounding techniques like box breathing, physical movement, and sensory awareness can help regulate your nervous system.
How Do I Stop Second Guessing Myself After Leaving an Abusive Relationship?
Q: How can I tell the difference between the trauma bond and real love?
Real love is safe and consistent, while a trauma bond is characterized by confusion and heightened emotional intensity.
How Do I Stop Second Guessing Myself After Leaving an Abusive Relationship?
Q: Why do I still miss my abuser even though I know they hurt me?
You miss the relief that came after the abuse, and this feeling is a normal part of withdrawal rather than a sign of regret.
How Do I Stop Second Guessing Myself After Leaving an Abusive Relationship?
Q: How do I stop second-guessing myself after leaving an abusive relationship?
Recognize that second-guessing is a survival mechanism from the abuse, and focus on replacing the abuser's voice with your own inner dialogue.

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Content centers around the experiences of surviving emotionally abusive relationships, particularly focusing on narcissistic abuse, trauma bonding, and the impact of gaslighting. The host shares personal anecdotes, practical advice, and strategies to help listeners validate their feelings and reclaim their narratives. Unique insights are offered regarding navigating complex emotional dynamics, particularly post-separation experiences, and the often frustrating processes of family court systems. The approach is supportive, aiming to provide clarity and validation for those who may feel misunderstood or isolated in their experiences with emotional abuse.

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