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Waking Up to Narcissism

Tony Overbay LMFT
Narcissism
Emotional Immaturity
Gaslighting
Rethinking Narcissism
Apologies
Relationships
Emotional Whiplash
Therapy
Emotional Abuse
Abuse
Self-Care
Mental Health
Emotional Intelligence
Family Dynamics
Amygdala Hijack
Conspiracy Theories
Emotional Maturity
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Boundaries
Critical Thinking

"Waking Up to Narcissism" is a podcast hosted by Tony Overbay, LMFT, host of the award-winning Virtual Couch podcast, dedicated to helping individuals recognize and navigate narcissistic traits and tendencies in their relationships and within themselves. With a focus on emotional immaturity versus narcissism, Tony provides tools and guidance for personal growth and managing relationships with narc... more

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Latest Episodes

Why do the people you thought knew you best stay silent—or worse, side with the person who hurt you?

This secondary betrayal often cuts deeper than the narcissistic behavior itself. Switzerland friends insist on neutrality while your pain makes them... more

Can you "turn off" a narcissist with one calm sentence? Tony unpacks the viral "narcissistic off switch" concept and discovers why tactics alone won't save you—but they might be exactly where real transformation begins.

After stumbling upon behavior... more

What do you do when someone in your family needs drama to feel alive? In this crossover episode, Tony dives deep into the anatomy of emotional immaturity through the story of "Uncle Ray"—a family member whose constant need for conflict, grievance, an... more

Is there such a thing as a "narcissistic collapse" — or is it just another trend designed to keep you scrolling at 2 AM looking for answers to why your relationship is the number one source of your frustration?

Tony answers an email from a listener ... more

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Recent Guests

Katherine Fabrizio
Licensed psychotherapist and author of The Good Daughter Syndrome
The Good Daughter Syndrome
Episode: Tell Me About Your Mother": Untangling Childhood's Hidden Traps with "The Good Daughter Syndrome" Author Katherine Fabrizio
Ashlynn Allen
Empowerment coach and betrayal trauma survivor
Self-employed
Episode: Finding Courage Through Chaos: Ashlynn's Path from Betrayal to Empowerment
Kate Anthony
Renowned divorce coach and author of 'The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage'
Episode: Kate Anthony, Author of “The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage” on Deciphering Divorce, Confronting Decisions, and Embracing Empowerment
Ryan Anderson
PhD, LMFT, and Author of 'The Choice to Leave Abuse'
Director at Telos NeuroHealth
Episode: Abuse, God, and Self-Discovery with Ryan Anderson, PhD., LMFT, and Author of 'The Choice to Leave Abuse'

Host

Tony Overbay
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with extensive experience in addressing emotional immaturity and narcissism in relationships. Host of the award-winning Virtual Couch podcast. Overbay combines personal anecdotes and practical advice to help listeners navigate complex emotional landscapes.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 1k ratings
  • this insight has changed my life

    I’m beyond grateful for this content. I’ve never had this much clarity around the dynamic I’ve been living for over a decade—why it didn’t work. Why it won’t work. Why it’s ok to save myself and only I can do it. How I can navigate leaving a toxic relationship while still co-parenting and helping my kids thrive. I can’t thank you enough for providing this content.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ncjennifer
    United States16 days ago
  • You gave me food for thought

    My word your podcast dated 3/10/25 Stop Trying to explain Yourself to a Narcissist was very profound & absolutely clear to me of the traits I have been dealing with. Thank you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jude Guildford
    United Kingdom19 days ago
  • Thanks for helping me survive!

    Dealing with a spouse who is emotionally immature and narcissistic tendencies. When I enforced one of my boundaries he lost it, as you predicted. The last few weeks I’ve had to deal with a lot of things and I’ve been binging your podcast starting with the first one to help me keep my sanity. I have two more years left to listen to, and I appreciate that you are repeating yourself because I’m learning a lot, the repetition helps. I have found myself talking like you in my head and out loud. It’s ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cin479
    United States21 days ago
  • Thank you

    The latest episode was very powerful, thank you :-)

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    marie43234
    United States3 months ago
  • Stop scrolling… this is the podcast.

    This podcast is just solid, grounded, thorough and deeply thoughtful. It is clear just how much effort and care Tony puts into each show. His voice has been one of the most powerful in helping me navigate the confusing and painful after effects of a smear campaign with my in-laws. And not only me, but my husband and I both listen to episodes and discuss. This podcast has helped my husband wake up and see what was happening to me and to stop enabling it for the sake of “peace.” The way Tony break... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Smasonjar
    United States4 months ago

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The content is praised for its clarity, with a mix of humor and insight, making difficult topics more accessible.
However, some feedback suggests occasional dissatisfaction with pacing or content delivery, indicating room for improvement.
Listeners appreciate the thoughtful and compassionate approach to understanding narcissism and emotional immaturity.
Many find this podcast life-changing, offering practical advice and strategies for navigating complex relationships.

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Finding Courage Through Chaos: Ashlynn's Path from Betrayal to Empowerment
Q: How did you find love again?
Ashlynn shared that she met her partner unexpectedly and initially did not want to date someone younger.
Finding Courage Through Chaos: Ashlynn's Path from Betrayal to Empowerment
Q: What was it like going through betrayal in the public eye?
Ashlynn described it as deeply challenging, needing to navigate her vulnerability while sharing her story.
Abuse, God, and Self-Discovery with Ryan Anderson, PhD., LMFT, and Author of 'The Choice to Leave Abuse'
Q: What led you to write the book?
A combination of professional and personal experiences witnessing people feeling trapped by religious obligations in abusive relationships.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Waking Up to Narcissism

What is Waking Up to Narcissism about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The content centers around navigating the complexities of relationships with narcissistic and emotionally immature individuals. Through insightful discussions and personal anecdotes, the host offers practical tools aimed at helping listeners understand emotional dynamics, improve self-awareness, and facilitate personal growth. Episodes frequently address the psychological effects of emotional immaturity, practical strategies for setting boundaries, and the importance of self-care in the context of challenging interpersonal dynamics. Overall, this series provides compassionate support for those looking to reclaim their emotional well-being while encouraging listeners to break free from toxic patterns in their relationships and understand the... more

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