
"Waking Up to Narcissism" is a podcast hosted by Tony Overbay, LMFT, host of the award-winning Virtual Couch podcast, dedicated to helping individuals recognize and navigate narcissistic traits and tendencies in their relationships and within themselves. With a focus on emotional immaturity versus narcissism, Tony provides tools and guidance for personal growth and managing relationships with narc... more
| Publishes | Twice monthly | Episodes | 151 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | EducationMental HealthSelf-ImprovementHealth & Fitness | |||

Why do the people you thought knew you best stay silent—or worse, side with the person who hurt you?
This secondary betrayal often cuts deeper than the narcissistic behavior itself. Switzerland friends insist on neutrality while your pain makes them... more
Can you "turn off" a narcissist with one calm sentence? Tony unpacks the viral "narcissistic off switch" concept and discovers why tactics alone won't save you—but they might be exactly where real transformation begins.
After stumbling upon behavior... more
What do you do when someone in your family needs drama to feel alive? In this crossover episode, Tony dives deep into the anatomy of emotional immaturity through the story of "Uncle Ray"—a family member whose constant need for conflict, grievance, an... more
Is there such a thing as a "narcissistic collapse" — or is it just another trend designed to keep you scrolling at 2 AM looking for answers to why your relationship is the number one source of your frustration?
Tony answers an email from a listener ... more
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I’m beyond grateful for this content. I’ve never had this much clarity around the dynamic I’ve been living for over a decade—why it didn’t work. Why it won’t work. Why it’s ok to save myself and only I can do it. How I can navigate leaving a toxic relationship while still co-parenting and helping my kids thrive. I can’t thank you enough for providing this content.
My word your podcast dated 3/10/25 Stop Trying to explain Yourself to a Narcissist was very profound & absolutely clear to me of the traits I have been dealing with. Thank you.
Dealing with a spouse who is emotionally immature and narcissistic tendencies. When I enforced one of my boundaries he lost it, as you predicted. The last few weeks I’ve had to deal with a lot of things and I’ve been binging your podcast starting with the first one to help me keep my sanity. I have two more years left to listen to, and I appreciate that you are repeating yourself because I’m learning a lot, the repetition helps. I have found myself talking like you in my head and out loud. It’s ... more
The latest episode was very powerful, thank you :-)
This podcast is just solid, grounded, thorough and deeply thoughtful. It is clear just how much effort and care Tony puts into each show. His voice has been one of the most powerful in helping me navigate the confusing and painful after effects of a smear campaign with my in-laws. And not only me, but my husband and I both listen to episodes and discuss. This podcast has helped my husband wake up and see what was happening to me and to stop enabling it for the sake of “peace.” The way Tony break... more
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The content centers around navigating the complexities of relationships with narcissistic and emotionally immature individuals. Through insightful discussions and personal anecdotes, the host offers practical tools aimed at helping listeners understand emotional dynamics, improve self-awareness, and facilitate personal growth. Episodes frequently address the psychological effects of emotional immaturity, practical strategies for setting boundaries, and the importance of self-care in the context of challenging interpersonal dynamics. Overall, this series provides compassionate support for those looking to reclaim their emotional well-being while encouraging listeners to break free from toxic patterns in their relationships and understand the... more
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